VALENTINE HER OR HIM
Someone calling, ‘’Sweetheart, Sweetheart’’. We all dread to be called by the name sweetheart. At the very least hear someone call you or me a sweetheart. However, we tend to forget what it entails to be a sweetheart. Questions linger our minds on whether one is made a sweetheart or is just born a sweetheart. Let’s go with one is made a sweetheart, a lover, a valentine to be precise.
When is Valentine’s?
On the 14th of February each year, sweethearts or rather should I say Valentines are made. However, let’s not forget that in most cases, sweethearts are reminded they are sweethearts on that particular date. It is a bit confusing I know. The point is, it is on the 14th of February that every lovable human being wishes to send a valentines gift to another loveable person in their life. It is considered a day when lovers express their love for each other by sending love reminder greetings, flowers and sweetheart gifts all in the name of Valentine gifts.
What are Valentine Gifts?
To begin with, valentine gifts vary depending on the gift recipient. In most scenarios, it narrows down to:
- Valentine gifts for him Valentine gifts for her
- Valentine gifts for boyfriend Valentine gifts for girlfriend
- Valentine gifts for husband Valentine gifts for wife
- Valentine gifts for men Valentine gifts for ladies
Having identified the gift recipient, a gift idea for the recipient follows. The gift idea is driven by motive. The motive is to valentine him or her. As such, sending flowers or gift hampers reminds her or him of how lovable he or she is. Most importantly, it shows she or he was made to be a sweetheart, a romantic partner who deserves a romantic gift.
What are Romantic Valentine’s day Gift Ideas?
Romantic Valentine’s Day gifts are a prerequisite to valentine her or him. They entail gifts that make your sweetheart feel loved, appreciated and treasured.
For instance, there is a big difference between a last minute gift, a generic gift and one that was put into thought for quite some time. It is that noticeable difference that matters. Again, when you remember to valentine her or him with something he or she mentioned ages ago, that is a physical representation of love on their hands. You can never go wrong with that.
Little gestures of care and generosity are quite underestimated as a way to valentine her or him. In fact, you and I could probably choose to buy something tagged as quite expensive. The truth is, a simple gesture of care such as grabbing some coffee and a vase of flowers on 14th February feels so sweet and meaningful. Let me leave it at that so we don’t all grab coffee and flowers as we valentine her or him. Moreover, get tempted to perceive Valentines as not important and we just celebrated Christmas.
Misconceptions about Valentines.
Valentine’s Day is for girls only.
Sorry girls we need to burst any bubbles on this. It is agreed that ladies deserve to be showered with gifts ranging from flowers, chocolates to the most expensive wine in the world. However, girls, as that man valentines you and presents an array of gifts to you, don’t show up empty handed. It is dishonourable. He may not ask about his gift, but surely he will hurt deeply as strong as he may seem.
Valentine’s Day has to be celebrated with a guy.
Guys you are important yes, but on Valentines, let the single ladies have it their way. The 14th of February could as well be a girl’s day out and the epic night for girls to share their most memorable moments in life.
Expensive Gifts show that you care
Ideally, a perfect gift is not expensive but a gift that expresses how much you love someone is perfect. Put your thoughts and memories while getting your valentine a gift. Be it flowers she is always talking about, a picnic gift set and outdoor activity she dies to have, that is the perfect gift.
You have to celebrate Valentine’s Day on Valentines
Most importantly, don’t sweat it if your pockets are torn. You don’t have to sweetheart her or him on a single day of the year and fail to show your love for her or him for the rest of the other days. Actually, choose to be loved and celebrate your commitment to someone every day.
I hope this makes you choose the best path to Valentine her or him.
Choose to be made a sweetheart, a lover, and above all a valentine each day.