VALENTINE YOUR LOVER
We all fancy to be called Sweetheart. At the very least hear someone call you or me Babe. However, we tend to forget what it entails to be a sweetheart. Questions linger our minds on whether one is meant to be a sweetheart or made a sweetheart. Let’s go with one is made to be a sweetheart, a lover, a valentine to be precise.
When is Valentine’s?
On the 14th of February each year, valentines are made all over the world. However, let’s not forget that in most cases, sweethearts are reminded they are sweethearts on that particular date. It is a bit confusing I know. The point is, it is on the 14th of February that every lovable human being wishes to send a valentine’s gift to another loveable person in their life. It is considered a day when lovers express their love for each other by sending love reminder greetings, flowers and chocolates all in the name of Valentine gifts.
What are Valentine Gifts?
To begin with, valentine gifts vary depending on the gift recipient. In most scenarios, it narrows down to:
Valentine’s gifts for him Valentine’s gifts for her
- Valentine gifts for boyfriend 1) Valentine gifts for girlfriend
- Valentine gifts for husband 2) Valentine gifts for wife
Having identified the gift recipient, a gift idea for the recipient follows. The gift idea is driven by motive. The motive is to valentine your lover. As such, sending flowers or gift hampers reminds them of how special they are. Most importantly, it shows them they were meant to be a sweetheart, a romantic partner who deserves a romantic gift.
What are Romantic Valentine’s day Gift Ideas?
Romantic gifts are prime on Valentine’s Day. They entail gifts that make your sweetheart feel loved, appreciated and treasured.
For instance, there is a big difference between a last-minute gift, a generic gift and one that was put into thought for quite some time. It is that noticeable difference that matters. Again, when you remember to valentine your sweetheart with something that he or she mentioned ages ago, that is a physical representation of love on their hands. You can never go wrong with that.
Little gestures of care and generosity are quite underestimated as a way to valentine. In fact, you and I could probably choose to buy something tagged as quite expensive rather than do something simple for them. The truth is, a simple gesture of care such as grabbing some coffee and a bouquet of flowers on 14th February feels so sweet and meaningful. Let me leave it at that so we don’t all grab coffee and flowers on Valentine’s. Moreover, get tempted to perceive Valentines as not important and we just celebrated Christmas.
Misconceptions about Valentines.
Valentine’s Day is for Ladies only.
Sorry Ladies we need to burst your bubble on this. It is agreed that ladies deserve to be showered with gifts ranging from flowers, chocolates to the most expensive wine and champagne in the world. However, Ladies, as that man celebrates you and presents an array of gifts to you, don’t show up empty handed. It is quite inelegant. He may not ask about his gift, but surely, he will be deeply hurt as strong as he may seem.
Valentine’s Day has to be celebrated with a Gentleman.
Gents, you are important yes, but on Valentines, let the single ladies have it their way. The 14th of February could as well be a girl’s day out and the epic night for girls to share their most memorable moments in life.
Expensive Gifts show that you care.
Ideally, a perfect gift is not expensive but a gift that expresses how much you love someone is perfect. Put your thoughts and memories while getting your valentine a gift. Be it flowers she is always talking about, a picnic gift set and outdoor activity she dies to have, that is the perfect gift.
You have to celebrate Valentine’s Day on Valentines.
Please don’t sweat it if your pockets are torn. You don’t have to celebrate her or him on a single day and fail to show your love for them for the rest of the year. Actually, choose to love and celebrate your commitment to someone every single day.
I hope this helps you make the right Valentine’s choice.
Choose to show your sweetheart how much you love them every single day and use Valentine’s Day to scream to the world how much you adore them.